Slacker Alert:


Today I'm going to take a break from farming to talk about something thats been on my mind. Been noticing that I'm seeing and hearing more about God (and Jesus) in the media lately. That has gotten me to wondering if the tide is starting to turn back towards the direction it should be going. Trying to think optimistically, I really hope this is the case but this also brought me to another possible reason for this uptick. It just might be that the more I realize the importance of God in my life, the more I find myself drawn to like minds and turned off from those things that are not. After a bunch 'o thought on this, I've come to the conclusion that it's a little of the first and more of the latter. This is good for me and not as good for everyone else.
Thinking about this has also gotten me to pontificating about role models and mentors. I think one of the biggest issues with the kids of today is that they don't have very many good role models and/or mentors to choose from. Most of what you see on TV and in the media is just plain old crap. The desire for money and power regardless of the cost to others or the personal costs to themselves runs rampant in sports, TV, government, the media, and even with some religious figures. Made me realize that I've been blessed with some very good mentors and role models throughout my life. Many of them did not ask for that job and might not have even known that they were doing it.
Mr. Dick Bennett was my riding instructor back when I was a young 'un. He was definately old school - brutally honest and tough but that forced you to either get better or get out. He taught me that hard work and practice pays off - you need it to get to the top of your game and then need it even more to stay there. Through him and showing horses, I learned that no matter how hard you try and how much you prepare, things don't always work out the way you planned (just ask JD about pattern classes) but that's OK. I also learned that life isn't always fair - the best person doesn't always win - but thats how life here on earth is. That you need to take pride in yourself and represent yourself to the best of your ability. Good things take time and come in small increments which you often don't see as they are happening but one day you look back and are amazed at where you got to.
Cowboys - I'm not talking about the shoot 'em up 1 against 100 movie and book characters here. I'm thinking more about the stories of good honest punchers, ranchers, and lawmen standing up for what is right when their back is up against the wall, regardless of the odds. Avoiding trouble until pushed too far, helping out others in time of need no matter the personal cost. Doing what is right and not what is easy. This same principal can still be found in many ranches throughout the country. Today's (real) cowboys still work hard for little pay but do what they do for the love of life. Cowboying isn't about the clothes, its about character.
Mr. William Gaudette. If ever there was a fine example of a humble man who has been a role model to hundreds of people without ever trying, this would be him. Having trained in kenpo with Mr. Gaudette for 14 years has taught me a lot not only about the martial arts but also so many other things in life. Our student creed mentions "I will live by the principals of black belt: modesty, integrity, perseverance, self control, and indominable spirit". He exhibits these principals in his everyday life. Being around him, it is hard to not want to adopt these and get better at them. He taught me that self-confidence gives inner peace and outer calm.
While on the martial arts theme, I'd like to mention two folks. The first is
Chuck Norris. He is a
man of God who has come through many struggles in life but has used his skills and fame to help benefit children both through his martial arts instruction and also his kick drugs programs. A new potential martial arts role model (at least for me) is
Matt Hughes. Most of you will likely not know Matt but he is a
UFC fighter. I've gotten a real good feeling on him from several of the TV interviews I've seen with him. Recently he coached a team of asipring MMA fighters on Ultimate Fighter TV show and during that time, he was not afraid to openly talk about his religion and spirituality and to try to open the young fighters minds to God. This was very refreshing to see on national TV. I have just ordered his autobiography and I'm sure I'll have several good quotes to use from it.
And of course, I couldn't have a list of role models without mentioning my beautiful wife and soulmate. Stacy has taught me so many things that I won't even try to mention them all here. I do need to thank her for her help in two areas though - compassion and spirituality. Stacy has shown me how to care about people, not just those who we know but people in general. Whenever I get stuck in life's ruts, Stacy quietly reminds me that its not about me but rather God and his work that needs to be done. That is so grounding and always puts things back into perspective for me. Thanks cutie, I love you!
In closing, I ask you to be a positive example, you never know who might be watching!
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your
own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge him, and
He shall direct your paths."
- Proverbs 3:5-6.